Saturday, January 8, 2011

Afro Champion

Shortly after I had my daughter Stella my husband and I went on a lunch date. After being cooped up on bedrest for so long I had forgotten that my hair often times is a conversation starter. However I was quickly reminded that my hair and me are a team, it speaks and I answer and this particular day it shouted to our waitress. Because before I knew it, her hands were in my hair poking around: stunned at first and then flattered we immediately struck up a conversation.

Katie is a vivacious slim figured blonde who is fascinated with afro hair. If everyone were as quick to embrace diversity as she was we wouldn’t have half of the racial tension that we do in our world today. She began to tell me that one of her closest friends has kinky hair and how unique it is see to all the different styles she can wear with her hair.

Captivated by my new afro champion, I told her about my blog, asked to take a picture with her and if I could share our encounter on AfroTina.  She was slightly camera shy because at the moment she was doing an experiment. She had recently seen a news report on a group of high school girls that were protesting makeup in an effort to re-connect with their inner-beauty. So inspired by their story, Katie decided to go a week without makeup or hair extensions.  Isn’t that just how life usually works, she is bare faced with limp hair and here I come along asking to take her picture so I could put it up on the internet. We laughed at the irony and then in the spirit of “inner beauty” we both said cheese for the camera.

I admire Katie’s openness and acceptance of beauty that is different from her own and her eagerness jump in and express her approval.  Today I encourage you to love your beauty and appreciate the variety of beauty around us.


Happy New Year✳

12 comments:

NaturalBlackOne said...

Lovely post. Both of you are beautiful as is!

Jamyrlyn Mallory said...

Great story! Love Katie going natural too!

Fely said...

So funny! You two are gorgeous from the inside out... :)

Christine said...

What a great story - and so amusing about her inner beauty experiment! I must agree with her - your hair is GORGEOUS!

AfroTina said...

thank you ladies:) so glad you enjoyed the post! The thought of Katie has made me smile many times...

Donna Conley said...

What a great post! Diversity is a beautiful thing. :)

Victoria said...

Wow! I could not imagine that happening to me. . .LOL

Patricia Williams said...

Loved this and it is amazing what everyone's definition of beauty in real time is and what the definition of what real beauty should be! How ironic, huh? You both looked amazing!!!!

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MINASEK said...

I just discovered your blog and as a new member I will visit you every week I hope you will do the same with mine. By the way you have beautiful hair and smile. This story is so sweet,May God Bless the two of you.

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Puget Sound Adventure Boot Camp said...

I grew up knowing you don't touch another woman's hair especially if you don't know them. I've seen many outraged women angry that someone got up close & personal, violateing their personal space. I imagine it's out of fear that someone gets that angry. Its really great to see an opposite reaction demonstrated. You recognized that she innocently meant no harm & it was her way of being open & friendly. Maybe she & others like her are used to having fingers in their hair more often that this act wouldn't be shocking if it happened to them. Good job for showing someone acceptance & recognizing that she was showing you the same.

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